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In the new web series "KREUZ & QUEER" Lou gives insights into the life of a person who does not want to call himself a man or a woman. An "he" or "she" is avoided when dealing with Lou. Florian Vock from the youth organization “Milchjugend” explains what needs to be considered.

The «milk youth» is supposed to give false sexual people, as they call themselves, the chance to exchange ideas with one another. At the beginning of a meeting there is a round of introductions in which each visitor says their pronoun. For a simple reason, as Florian Vock explains: "It is no longer true for us to automatically derive gender from clothes, hair or voice."

Sexual orientation is not relevant

However, they do not talk about sexual orientation in the introductory round. «We say the pronoun because you want to know how to address someone in everyday life. Everything else is a private matter. It's not anyone's business that I have between my legs, ”says Florian.

It can happen that the pronoun changes from day to day, he says. Most of the time, however, it is clear to most. For the co-founder of the «Milchjugend» it is definitely true to be addressed as «he».

Inquiries welcome

Florian would like you to ask which pronoun to use in the other person. He is aware that such desires can quickly catapult him to the sidelines. "We're outsiders anyway."

We're outsiders anyway.

Florian does not think that you can only use the wrong name for someone like Lou in conversation. «It shouldn't be a minefield. There is no right or wrong here - and if you say it wrong once, the world will not end. If you ask us how we would like to be approached and you try, we are happy. "

Lou and «KREUZ & QUEER»

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  • Comment from Franz NANNI (Aetti)
    If I want to determine the sex of a small cat, I turn it around and look at it, then I know it .. and that's how it is with people ... how they feel .. well that's everyone's own side dish. .. So WHO is interested ...?
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    1. answer from Patrick Kenel (Patrick Kenel)
      The subjective feeling is certainly justified in people. However, it should not be considered a bad mistake not to ask and miss someone a wrong pronoun.
      Agree agree to the comment
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